Re: Newbie - JAR question



Andrew Thompson wrote:
RedGrittyBrick wrote:
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And finally, you trashed Andrew when he was trying to help.

I don't believe I treated him any differently then he treated me.

I find that reacting to abhorrent behaviour by behaving abhorrently isn't usually useful. YMMV.


Huhh? I will have to trawl this thread more carefully, but
I did not realise anybody was being abhorrent!


a24900: "[Lee] trashed Andrew".
Lee: "I treated [Andrew] [as] he treated me"
Paraphrasing:
"I trashed Andrew because he trashed me"
RGB: "I find retaliating in kind isn't useful".

I didn't think you were being abhorrent. Even if you were, as a recipient, I hope I'd not be equally abhorrent when replying.

In future I shall be more careful how I phrase my trite homilies :-)
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